Whoever told you that you can never win an argument with a woman has obviously never read these tips. If you want to win an argument with your girlfriend at least once, then all you need are these 5 sure shot ways.
Gentlemen, have you ever wondered why you can never win an argument with a woman? It is not just because women are pro at it(or at least that’s what most people say), maybe it is also because you are doing something wrong or maybe you aren’t really doing something that you should be doing. We will give you foolproof ways that will help you win a argument at least once in a lifetime with your girlfriend. This works even when your girlfriend resorts to crying as the last try. Interesting isn’t it? Give it a read.
Change the topic when things start heating up
As soon as you sense things getting all worse and heated up, just try changing the topic. But you have to do this very smoothly and smartly. You can not do this in the middle of an argument. Your only chance at this is before an argument crops up. You can talk about your work or something funny that you read or saw on social media. This will divert her mind and she might just forget what she was about to argue with you. If you manage to pull this off, you have already won an argument( that never happened, but never mind).
Do not opt for tit for tat
She might be blaming you something that you did. If you are guilty, then just admit it. Do not resort to tit for tat or play blame games only because she is doing it. Be the matured one and talk it out to her. Once you do this, you will see how your girlfriend appreciates this and the argument is no longer there.
Learn to agree to disagree
Now chances are you do not agree to what your girlfriend is telling, but it is very important that you learn to agree to disagree. Just tell her that you do not agree to her but that does not really mean she is wrong. Being two different individuals and adults, both of you have different opinions and it is okay to disagree sometimes. If your girlfriend is logical, she will totally get this and guess what you have won the argument.
You need to be patient and try not losing your calm
So most of the times when a woman is upset she can go all crazy on you. She is arguing intensely and is also raising her voice occasionally. However you need to be patient If both of you lose your cool, then the argument will never end, forget being winning. So if you really want to win an argument and just keep her quiet, be patient and calm. Come what may, just do not lose your temper. After a point your girlfriend will get tired of all the screaming and arguing. And she will also feel guilty for being so mad because you were patient and did not react in the same manner as she did. Whether you were the wrong one or the right one, she will definitely apologize for being so bad.
Do something really unexpected
Now this your chance to try something out of the box. Do something that you know will instantly calm her down or make her smile. For instance, promise her that you will cook tonight or get her a gift or play her favorite song. It can be anything and this has to be in the middle of a serious argument. Do it subtly. Stop her politely, ask for 5 minutes and just do any of these. She is bound to feel happy and now is the time when you both can talk out your issue rationally.
So like you read above, these are the 5 smartest ways of winning an argument. You do not even have to put up a fight, all it requires are some wise moves, perfect timing and love.