You just didn’t think. You were careless and careless. You lost it! You stupidly took them for granted. You – the best thing you ever had.
You made her feel exuberant as if she wasn’t part of that relationship. You were selfish and you didn’t even notice. Instead of being a team, you decided that it was going to be a one-man show with the leading role. That drove them out.
She suffered for a long time. She pulled away, in immense pain. She even wanted to leave you earlier, but felt sorry for you. She kept hoping that you would understand what you were doing wrong and change – but you didn’t. You used to dance alone on the dance floor of your life while she sat next to you and watched you.
You lost her because you weren’t quite connected to her. You knew you had it. You knew she was there. You didn’t quite tie yourself to her because you didn’t appreciate her enough. All the time you had to make a choice; they or someone else – you always chose the other option.
You lost because you didn’t understand her
It was impossible for you to understand what was going on in her head. She was always one step ahead of you. She never made you aware of it. She loved you so much. You lost the relationship so easily.
You lost her because you didn’t trust her
Maybe you didn’t trust her because you felt threatened by her. Maybe somewhere inside you knew you didn’t deserve it, so you suspected it. It was really brave of you to do that. You were hypocritical.
You lost because you didn’t see it the way it really is.
You have not recognized the special something that is inside you. You didn’t understand it because she never bragged about it. That’s just the way it is. She is humble and she always puts others in front of her because she knows that she will make it anyway. You missed that. You should be ashamed of yourself because you were so “blind”.
You lost her because you didn’t listen to her.
Her words never found the way to your heart and mind. You pretended to listen, but you never did. That’s why you lost it.
You lost it because you didn’t recognize its value.
If it were the other way around, how would you feel? How would you feel if you gave your all and got nothing back?
You’d feel like shit, just like she does.
She is a girl who will always give everything she has, but you and those like you take her for granted … and thus she becomes the victim of her own goodness.